{"id":3641,"date":"2015-03-05T06:00:36","date_gmt":"2015-03-05T11:00:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.completemarketingsystems.com\/cms\/?p=3641"},"modified":"2015-03-03T09:11:28","modified_gmt":"2015-03-03T14:11:28","slug":"more-people-fear-this-than-death","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.completemarketingsystems.com\/cms\/more-people-fear-this-than-death","title":{"rendered":"More People Fear This Than Death&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Yes, the one thing most people fear more than death is public speaking and recently a client admitted she was right there too.<\/p>\n<p>She felt like she should be speaking, she thought it might even help her grow her business, and she had requests from other people in the industry to do a webinar on her topic.\u00a0 Fear was stopping her\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Now, let me be the first one to say we all need to get rid of our \u201cshoulds\u201d \u2013 you know, I should do this and I should do that. The only thing or things you should do are things that YOU decide to do to move your business and your life forward, to get you closer to your vision or mission and that make you feel good about your place in the world.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t have to do anything in particular to have a successful business. If you don\u2019t want to run live events, then don\u2019t. If you don\u2019t want to coach and mentor people then don\u2019t offer coaching and masterminds. Whatever doesn\u2019t fit for you, don\u2019t do it. And, never allow somebody to make you feel bad for your choices and what\u2019s right for you in your business.<\/p>\n<p>You doing, or not doing something, should never be about somebody else\u2019s priorities or influences.<br \/>\n<script type=\"text\/javascript\">\/\/ <![CDATA[\nvar playerhost = ((\"https:\" == document.location.protocol) ? \"https:\/\/cmsezinevideos.s3.amazonaws.com\/ezs3js\/secure\/\" : \"http:\/\/cmsezinevideos.s3.amazonaws.com\/ezs3js\/player\/\"); document.write(unescape(\"%3Cscript src='\" + playerhost + \"flv\/BED89565-D4AE-52BC-EDCD280581DCE659.js?t=\"+(Math.random() * 99999999)+\"' type='text\/javascript'%3E%3C\/script%3E\"));\n\/\/ ]]><\/script><br \/>\nAlso, never let fear be the reason you don\u2019t do something.<\/p>\n<p>We all have fear \u2013 every one of us.\u00a0 One of the reasons we have fear is we let self-doubt take over and rule our minds. We don\u2019t think we know enough; or we think somebody will ask us a question we won\u2019t know the answer to. I could go on and on about all the ways we question ourselves and convince ourselves not to do things.<\/p>\n<p>Turn those doubting voices in your head off. I say it all the time, if you know 10% more than somebody else, you\u2019re an expert in their eyes. Or as somebody else recently said to me, to the 3<sup>rd<\/sup> grader, the 4<sup>th<\/sup> grader is a genius.<\/p>\n<p>And, sometimes you just have to borrow confidence from somebody else in order to advance and move forward.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m here for you if you need to borrow some of mine, or if I can help you develop your confidence more\u2026I just had a client tell me I was really good at making her feel confident, and she had just attended the <span style=\"text-decoration: underline; color: #0000ff;\"><a style=\"color: #0000ff;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.ImplementationCoachingEvent.com\/June\" target=\"_blank\"><strong><em>\u201cImplementation Coaching Event\u2122.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/a><\/span> The next one is in Atlanta, Georgia, June 11 &amp; 12th!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Prosperity &amp; Abundance to You &#8211;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>PS \u2013 I\u2019d love for you to leave a comment or share the post! 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