{"id":6633,"date":"2022-07-21T10:00:01","date_gmt":"2022-07-21T14:00:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.completemarketingsystems.com\/cms\/?p=6633"},"modified":"2022-07-20T15:41:50","modified_gmt":"2022-07-20T19:41:50","slug":"ever-made-this-mistake","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.completemarketingsystems.com\/cms\/ever-made-this-mistake","title":{"rendered":"Ever Made This Mistake?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We all make mistakes.<\/p>\n<p>We all have lapses in judgement.<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-6637\" src=\"https:\/\/www.completemarketingsystems.com\/cms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/unnamed-file-300x192.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"230\" height=\"147\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.completemarketingsystems.com\/cms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/unnamed-file-300x192.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/www.completemarketingsystems.com\/cms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/unnamed-file.jpeg 512w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 230px) 100vw, 230px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>We all sometimes justify<\/strong> things and do things we don\u2019t usually do\u2026<\/p>\n<p>We all do things we <strong>know better<\/strong> than.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t know about you but when I justify and do something I typically don\u2019t, it means I have to <strong>relearn a lesson again.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In other words, it doesn\u2019t turn out the way I wanted it too.<\/p>\n<p>It happened recently and I colleague, and friend gently reminded me that I knew better.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Thank goodness<\/strong> for good friends \u2013 in business and outside of it.<\/p>\n<p>The short version is I agreed to speak for a new organization at an event in Atlanta and after getting approval for the topic, I submitted everything they asked for well in advance.<\/p>\n<p>My slide deck for the presentation was submitted <strong>more than a month<\/strong> prior to the date and <strong>2 full weeks<\/strong> before the deadline.<\/p>\n<p>I was scheduled to speak at 2:50pm in downtown Atlanta on a Friday.<\/p>\n<p>I had showered, dressed, and put my make-up and was almost ready to head downtown when I looked at my email to see a message from the event coordinator at 11am that said\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI am giving you as early notice as I can. We have had a fantastic conference of Advanced Marketing topics for our audience of Senior Marketing Professionals.<\/p>\n<p>As your presentation is not quite a fit, we have decided that unfortunately, you are unable to speak today at our Atlanta event. We have sorted an alternative session for the Agenda as a Implementation Commitment Session in our Wrap-Up.<\/p>\n<p>If you do show up onsite, you are certainly welcome to join complimentary as an Attendee.<\/p>\n<p>We sincerely apologize for the convenience and short notice.<\/p>\n<p>Thanks for your understanding for our decision.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s right\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Four hours before I\u2019m scheduled to speak, <strong>they cancelled me.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>They <strong>approved my topic<\/strong> (which was Direct Response Marketing Strategies \u2013 a topic I can fit for Any audience at Any level) and then decided it wasn\u2019t a fit. It was all very <strong>baffling<\/strong> to me.<\/p>\n<p>In fairness to them I must tell you they did call the office the night before (at like 8:30pm) but didn\u2019t leave a voicemail. And they didn\u2019t call my cell (which they had).<\/p>\n<p>Who checks their caller ID on their office phone if there isn\u2019t a voicemail? Nobody I know\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Here are the lessons learned\u2026<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong>Paid speaking gigs or speak to sell only.<\/strong> No unpaid speaking!<br \/>\n(Even if the event is in your hometown and you think there might be other opportunities or business in the room.)<\/li>\n<li>There <strong>always has to be a written agreement<\/strong> of some kind.<\/li>\n<li>If you\u2019re speaking for a new organization, you don\u2019t know anything about, <strong>do some research and due diligence.<\/strong><\/li>\n<li>And\u2026 just for fun! <strong>Don\u2019t be surprised by Anything Anymore!<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>If you\u2019ve read this far and you\u2019re saying to yourself something doesn\u2019t add up here\u2026 this doesn\u2019t make sense, I agree.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I\u2019ve been speaking for 30 years.<\/strong> I\u2019ve been asked back to speak for companies who never have a speaker back more than once. I\u2019m always one of the top 3 speakers at events that ask for speaker reviews.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve <strong>never<\/strong> seen anything like this or experienced anything like this before.<\/p>\n<p>I could go on and on, but I won\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>Do you have a crazy speaker story?<\/p>\n<p>To Your Success \u2013<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-4638 alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/www.completemarketingsystems.com\/cms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/dianesig.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"161\" height=\"107\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We all make mistakes. We all have lapses in judgement. We all sometimes justify things and do things we don\u2019t usually do\u2026 We all do things we know better than. I don\u2019t know about you but when I justify and do something I typically don\u2019t, it means I have to relearn a lesson again. 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