{"id":7116,"date":"2024-01-25T10:00:34","date_gmt":"2024-01-25T15:00:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.completemarketingsystems.com\/cms\/?p=7116"},"modified":"2024-01-23T10:48:36","modified_gmt":"2024-01-23T15:48:36","slug":"thanking-yourself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.completemarketingsystems.com\/cms\/thanking-yourself","title":{"rendered":"Thanking Yourself\u2026 When Was The Last Time You Did?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I don\u2019t usually watch awards shows. I didn\u2019t watch the Emmy\u2019s last week, but I saw some of the speeches and a lot of the winners on social media.<\/p>\n<p>As I was scrolling through Instagram last Tuesday morning, I saw Niecy Nash\u2019s acceptance speech. She was excited to have won.<\/p>\n<p>One of the first things she said was \u201cI\u2019m a winner baby\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>My first thought was \u201cyou were a winner before you got this Emmy\u201d but I knew what she meant. The rush of the win.<\/p>\n<p>She thanked a lot of people, to include \u201cthe most high\u201d and then she said\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou know who I want to thank. <strong>I want to thank me.<\/strong> For believing in me and for doing what they said I could not do.<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-7119\" src=\"https:\/\/www.completemarketingsystems.com\/cms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/I-Want-To-Thank-Me-300x300.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"231\" height=\"231\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.completemarketingsystems.com\/cms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/I-Want-To-Thank-Me-300x300.png 300w, https:\/\/www.completemarketingsystems.com\/cms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/I-Want-To-Thank-Me-1024x1024.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.completemarketingsystems.com\/cms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/I-Want-To-Thank-Me-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/www.completemarketingsystems.com\/cms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/I-Want-To-Thank-Me-768x768.png 768w, https:\/\/www.completemarketingsystems.com\/cms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/I-Want-To-Thank-Me.png 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 231px) 100vw, 231px\" \/> And I want to say to myself, in front of all you beautiful people, <strong>go on girl with your bad self.<\/strong> You did that.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She went on to accept the award on behalf of other brown and black women and she named a few specifically.<\/p>\n<p>I watched and listened to her a few times and each time I was <strong>moved by the idea that she thanked herself.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>She got some laughs in the audience\u2026 a few people stood and clapped\u2026 but the crowd was abuzz the whole time she was talking.<\/p>\n<p>As people laughed at her thanking herself \u2013 more at her words and the way she did it, I hope, than her words \u2013 I was <strong>struck by them.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>How many times have you thanked yourself for your accomplishments?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Growing up a farm girl, in a small town, rural Ohio, I\u2019m sure nobody expected me to end up where I am or with the success I\u2019ve worked for.<\/p>\n<p>I know for sure none of my college friends thought I\u2019d go to graduate school.<br \/>\nAnd being an entrepreneur\u2026 well, sometimes, that one still shocks me.<\/p>\n<p>One of the things I talk a lot about with my clients is <strong>celebrating wins \u2013 all of them<\/strong> \u2013 big and small.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not talking about booking a cruise because you made a $100 sale. But you might treat yourself to a special coffee or lunch out or something appropriate to the sale. Bigger rewards with bigger achievements.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If you don\u2019t celebrate you who will?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So many of our friends and relatives don\u2019t really understand us or what we do\u2026<\/p>\n<p><strong>Celebrate you<\/strong> \u2013 celebrate your wins.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Thank yourself\u2026 do it today!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u2013 and you don\u2019t need an award to tell you that.<\/p>\n<p>To Your Success \u2013<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-4638 alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/www.completemarketingsystems.com\/cms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/dianesig.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"158\" height=\"105\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I don\u2019t usually watch awards shows. I didn\u2019t watch the Emmy\u2019s last week, but I saw some of the speeches and a lot of the winners on social media. As I was scrolling through Instagram last Tuesday morning, I saw Niecy Nash\u2019s acceptance speech. She was excited to have won. 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